These
are my top 6 favorite Inspirational and motivational Memes. As an NLP Spiritual Life Coach, my goal is to motivate and inspire people to
live their best life. In order to manifest what you desire you must
have a relaxed faith and the persistence to keep looking forward no
matter what obstacles get in your way. I chose these memes to help
you stay focused this week. You have everything that you need in
order to succeed. All you need now is faith. Stay encouraged and keep moving forward. God
Bless.
This blog is all about learning tips and techniques on how to grow in faith because faith is what moves you forward to achieving your dreams. Everything you desire is created in the mind first and if you can master your mind then you can achieve anything you desire.
Tuesday, September 19, 2017
Thursday, September 14, 2017
Your Peace Of Mind Is More Precious Than Gold.
If
it costs you your peace of mind it's too expensive.
Our
peace of mind is more precious than gold and this article is about
protecting and cherishing our peace of mind. If you find yourself
overwhelmed by stress this article is for you.
The
last few months have been back to back stressful events in my life. I had to
overcome a serious illness, moving again and dodging scorpions (YEA Scorpions!) in my new place. Along with financial
hardships and family crisis after crisis, my life has been stacked
with stress. Not to mention current events I find myself surrounded
by things pulling at my peace of mind and my sanity.
Despite
all of that I still find myself at peace and very happy. Even with
all the storms of life, I have been able to grab peaceful moments in
my day. Enough peace of mind that I am able to focus on things that I really
love. I learned that we can not always control things outside of
ourselves. We only have control of the space that is within us and I
have learned to take full advantage of that. I have learned to start
my day on purpose before any negativity or chaos have time to take
hold. Using that peaceful time before I even get out of bed helped me
to direct how I want my day to continue. I have learned that if I
start my day off peaceful no matter what pit hole I fall into I can
still keep my peace of mind and always find my way out.
For
example, I wake up and do my prayers and meditations. After I do that
I write out my intention for the day 15 times on paper. I do what I
call a writing loop something that I learned from Scott Adams to solidify my intentions. I write something like I Barbara
Clay, make passive income from books, digital art and blogging. I have writing mastery.... I write that 15 times every morning before I start my day
and now I am clearly on my way to achieving just that. The writing
loop really does work. My book is almost done and I love it. I am
also selling my artwork.
Starting
my day off on purpose really helped me a lot and I know it will also
help you too. The things we want the most always start in the mind first
so start your day creating what you want in your mind first before
anything else has a chance to grab your attention. Take time the first thing in the morning to
really care for yourself. If you find yourself overwhelmed and
stressful start your day with a prayer and make a deceleration in
writing of what you want to achieve for the day and each and every
day.
I
know if you start your day off on purpose and protect your peace you will always have enough peace of mind to continue on through the day. Yes,
chaos may happen all around you but I know that if you learn to
cultivate and protect your peace you can have the peace of mind to
handle anything that comes your way. Never give up. You have
everything you need to succeed. Don't think you do, know you do. God
Bless.
Love the artwork? You can purchase my art here
Love the artwork? You can purchase my art here
Monday, September 4, 2017
My New Book These Quotes Are For You By Barbara Clay
Copyright
© 2017 Barbara Clay
I am really excited to announce that I have written my first book. Right now I am in the editing stage and I will be finished really soon.
My book is about my top favorite 25 quotables to help you live your best life. This book is not just a list of quotes. For added value, I added my own insight on how you can use the quotes in your daily life. My hope and prayer is that this book will give fresh new ideas on how to live your best life.
The art work that is in the book is all original art done by me 26 in total including the cover. If you see a quote that you love you will be able to purchase a poster that you can hang on your wall and enjoy for years to come.
This is one of my favorite chapters in the book. Please leave a review and let me know how you like it and stay tuned for more to come.
I am the Master of my fate. I am the Captain of my soul.
Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. Now is all there is.
In the last chapter of this book, I talked about faith and how faith is knowing what you want and certain that you will receive it. I also talked about having faith in yourself. Faith in yourself is all about knowing who you are and knowing who you want to to be. It is about being confident in what you know you can do just like Micheal Phelps and many other great successful people. In growing to who we want to be I learned that we should always strive for mastery. Mastery in one thing should be what pushes us and motivate us every day. Understand that mastery is a marathon, not a sprint.
I remember a story my husband told me one day when I was feeling discouraged because I didn't feel like I was where I wanted to be with my life. I love art but at that time I felt like a failure. I will never forget what he told me. He told me a story of the Kings Apprentice. He said “One day a king took a piece of jade to a master craft smith only to find out by his apprentice that he died. So he asked the young apprentice if he could carve a great masterpiece from it. The apprentice took the jade and said, “Ok I will create something amazing for the king”. Five years passed and the king went to the apprentice and asked for the jade. The apprentice said that the jade was not yet ready and he needed more time. The king said, “I will give you a little more time”. Another five years passed. The king went to the apprentice and asked to see the jade. The apprentice apologized and told the king the jade is still not ready yet and he needed more time. Reluctantly the king gave the apprentice more time.
Another five years passed the king filled with anger went to the apprentice and furiously said “I have waited 15 years for my jade sculpture. I want my jade right now.” The apprentice who was now a master calmly went and got the raw piece of jade and sat it on a table in front of the king. He then sat down and began to masterfully cut the jade. Every cut he made was perfect. Within a few minutes, the apprentice masterfully crafted the jade into a beautiful work of art. So beautiful it made the king cry. In tears, the king asked, “Why did I have to wait 15 years for something so beautiful and so amazing you made in just a few minutes?” The apprentice said, “When you gave me the jade I never cut jade before and it took me 15 years to master”.
After my husband told me that amazing story he said to me “Barbara don't worry about how long it takes you to get to where you want to go. Keep doing what you are doing and one day you will percent your gifts before kings and queens”. I smiled and asked will I also make them cry like the apprentice? He laughed and said NOO... Well maybe. He then lovingly brushed my face with his fingers and made me smile. I got up and continued to work on my art filled with purpose.
Take Action
What you do today can bring you before kings and queens. Let mastery of your goals and dreams be what motivates you every day. Every day you should be doing something that you love to do and something you really want to master. Don't let a day go by without you doing something that you love to do.
We don't have to be like Micheal Phelps. Even if you just spend an hour a day on mastering what you love you will be a master a lot faster than a person who is not spending any time at all mastering anything. Remember mastery is not a marathon, it's a sprint. History has shown that your gift will take you before Kings and Queens so take action right now to do what you love and let mastery be your guide.
Tuesday, November 22, 2016
The most powerful lesson you can ever learn to live your best life
The mindset of dissatisfaction and
distraction, the reality of never having or being enough effects every facet of our lives.
One day I saw my husband a little
upset. I asked him what was wrong and he said “Every time I try to
focus I feel like I am being pulled in every direction”. I said
that is because you are looking at your problems all at one time. I'm
ok, the church is ok, the house is ok. You don't have to do anything that you do not want to do right now. Right now at this moment,
everything is ok. Don't allow everything to overwhelm you. Only focus
on the things that you have absolute control over right now in this
present moment and let go of everything else.
He immediately relaxed and was calm. What was interesting was that the next day he got some
great ideas to handle all of the stress that he was facing and he is
very happy right now.
We all have these moments of doubt,
fear and the feeling of being pulled in the opposite direction. Many
times we only see our dissatisfaction and distractions so much so we
can't see a way through the fog. By letting go of dissatisfaction and
focusing only on the present moment you free up mental space to see a
way through any situation. Does this mean you have to be happy all
the time? No, but letting go of your dissatisfaction and your attachment to the outcome will
open up doors you can't even imagine.
The best way to let go of
dissatisfaction and worry is the remind yourself where your source of
supply comes from. For me, my source of supply comes from God.
Everything that I have, all my needs and all my gifts come from God
and I know that He wants me to succeed. I remind myself of this every
single day when I wake up and right before I go to bed.
Reminding yourself that something
greater than yourself is working things out for you will free you
from anxiety, doubt, and fear because you are not just depending on
yourself you are depending on something greater than yourself. You must first learn to let go. Even God can't fill a cup that is already full.
-Start by letting go just a little each
day and work your way up to letting go the whole day. Even letting go
just a little makes more room for greater things to come.
-Remind yourself that the source
greater than yourself is working thing out for you and trust that He
will do what He said He will do.
-Now that you have let go, get active and be passionate about your goals.
Making small changes in your life can make a huge difference in your
life. The time for talking and wishing things was better is over.
What small steps can you take right now to make things better for
yourself and others? Think about it for a moment then take those
actions right now.
The greatest lesson you can learn is to
have the serenity to accept the things you can not change, have the
courage to change the things you know you can and gain wisdom to know
the difference.
Let things go so you can grow.
If you need help in finding ways to let
go please contact me on FB and I will be more than happy to help.
God Bless
Thursday, November 17, 2016
Being True To Yourself Is Absolute Bravery
Being true to yourself is an act of
rebellion especially when others want you to be something else
Last year I wrote an article titled Being Yourself Is Absolute Bravery and today I thought back to that
article because it still applies today. When I was thinking about
this time of uncertainty and what we really need now to get through these uncertain times the first thing
that popped into my mind is that we really need to be true to
ourselves. No matter what is going on in this world being true to
ourselves will be our saving grace in the end because our time on
this earth is short. If you don't say it now it may never get said.
If you don't do what you love now it may never get done. Being true
to yourself is an absolute necessity and it takes a lot of courage.
I just saw a video where a woman of
color walked into a store with her 3 beautiful children dressed
in traditional African clothing. The mom upset and very angry walked
in and asked the clerk behind the counter “who asked my children
are they going trick or treating for Halloween?” (It was August
when this happened 2 months before Halloween). The clerk tried to
deny that it was her but the 3 kids said it was her who said it. After the mother
said some blunt but O so true words she explained that she tried her
hardest to teach her 3 kids to be respectful to EVERYONE and not
cause trouble. She tried to teach them to be great citizens and to
honor their African heritage and for someone to disrespect them for
doing just that is the ultimate slap in the face.
She said that when she try to be nice
to people they don't hear a word she say but when she go to a place
and curse everyone out everyone hears every word she says. I noticed
that the video got over 24 million views. She said she wish it didn't
have to be that way and so do I but seeing that she got 24 million
views and I can remember almost every word she said is she right? I
know the clerk will not say anything about anyone's clothing from
this day forward and anyone watching that video will also think twice
about disrespecting anyone's culture no matter who they are.
In her being true to herself and
teaching her kids to be true to themselves she had to speak up
unflinching with boldness. I remembered when Jesus Christ tried to
get his point across he also spoke boldly, turned a table over and
EVERYONE who read the bible remembers him doing that. Sometimes being
true to ourselves mean that we must speak up for ourselves and speak
up for those who can not speak for themselves. That mother could have
done and said a lot of things. She could have just ignored it and
told the kids not to worry about it but that day the kids went home
feeling even more proud of who they are, proud of the clothes they
were wearing and the heritage they represented.
As a woman of color myself, I can
totally relate. You know how many times I was put down for my skin
color and my natural hair? Even to this day trying to be true to
myself in a world that truly doesn't respect everyone's culture is a
tough battle but being true to yourself and honoring who you are is a
battle worth fighting for. Being true to yourself is absolute
bravery. Just as I said last year “ I had to fight for every inch
of myself. From my own personal beliefs to my natural hair. I had to
fight to be unique. People would tell me every day be yourself then
look down on me and get angry when I do something they don't like”.
Being true to yourself means being true
to ALL of yourself even in the bold words you speak. The only one you
need to please is God so make sure you have the right heart no matter what you say or do. Keep in mind people are going to say
whatever they want to say anyway. No matter if you dress in a suit or
baggy pants people will still talk about you the same so why not be
unapologetically yourself? I learned this the hard way. You really
don't have anything to loose in honoring and being true to yourself.
So let your Unique flag fly. Love all
of yourself because you are an awesome human being and worthy of
being loved. God loves you and so do I.
God Bless
Wednesday, November 9, 2016
The worst moment in our lives makes us who we are right now
Crumbs do not replace a full meal at
the table... The last few months have been very challenging but I
have found renewed fire within me. The tiger has been let out of the
cage and I am no longer a slave to fear. For many years I have tried
to sit still, be quiet, not rocking the boat, be comfortable and be
overly mindful of my words so not to hurt anyone's feelings. I've
tried to show love and kindness so that people know how to love one
another and I prayed daily for peace as a good Christian would.
Now I feel no need to hold my tongue
any longer about the craziness I see. Today I have been set free. I
will speak my mind with no apologies. I am free to call a spade a
spade. I am free to express how tired I am of the pessimistic and
hatefulness in people's hearts especially from people who call
themselves Christians. Yes I know there is a history in this country
and the fact that hatefulness and bigotry is not going away anytime
soon it is time for me to be bold and unflinching with my words
because in the world that I live in no matter what I say I am damned
if I say anything and damned if I stay quite.
Because of that fact, I am under no
obligation to tip toe around the issues so not to offend. I tried it
and it didn't work so from this day forward my words will take a
bolder (but still with love) approach in everything I say and do. I
will be more direct and focused on the hardcore truths. The truth is
that we as a people have a lot of work to do and I am anxious to get
started on the renewed work that is underway.
I have never been clearer on my life
path more than I am now. Honestly, I am excited. Over my lifetime I
have trained for this moment right now. I want to help people to
focus on the issues that are needed to build us up and not tear us
down. It is time to build communities that our children would be
proud of. For the longest time, people wanted to tear us down for who
we are but history shows that we as a people always rise to the
challenges we face. I am not afraid of what is to come because I have
already gone through so much and I am stronger because of it. Those
who are loving and supportive will understand my words and I am not
worried about the rest.
Despite all that is going on I still
love this Country but now we see it's true colors in bright neon
lights overhead that express exactly how this country feels. Now it
is time for me to speak up and speak out. I will no longer stay quiet
about what I know is right. I know there is still good in this world
and I will speak to the heart of people until we have full equality
in this world. Crumbs will not replace a full meal at the table and
it never will.
The hard works starts NOW
Friday, July 15, 2016
The Secret To Success Is To Know That You Can Have It.
Spoiler alert I'm going to tell you the
secret of the Book Think And Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. Every person
mentioned in the book KNEW that they were going to have what they
desired.
Growing up in the Church I use to get
so frustrated when I hear people talk about faith because people made
it seem so simple to do and yet I always see people including myself
struggle to have faith. I would many times hear people say “We all
struggle with our faith” and just leave it at that like that's just
the way it is. I would ask people who I thought was full of wisdom
how do you have faith and their answer was “Just believe” or
“just trust in God”. I trusted no one growing up and trust very
few people now so how was I to learn to trust God whom I have not
seen? I would say great I believe that I can have what I desire but
it's not happening. I guess God don't want me to have what I desire. Looking back and thinking of Aesop's Fables That thought of God not
wanting me to have what I desire was my biggest downfall and it just
might be yours.
Even worse I would hear people say “God
don't always give you the desires of your heart” like God doesn't
want too. What I learned is that God is always willing to give us
what we need and desire IF we stay connected to Him, stay connected
to the source. Keep in mind God wants what is best for us. We become
disconnected when we are filled with anxiety, worry, doubt, fear,
selfishness, self-centeredness, greed and lack of faith just to name
a few. It's not God that don't give us the desires of our heart, it's
that we block Him from doing so. Many people don't want to believe
that we can block The Almighty God from doing anything but consider
this; Matthew 13;58 And He did not do many miracles there because of
their lack of faith. If God is within you can He do miracles in you
or will your lack of faith keep Him from doing anything? God wants to
bless you. I have learned that God can do all things for us but only
as far as our faith will let Him. He can only do what we believe.
What does it mean to have faith? It
means to trust, speak words of faith, let go, don't try to figure it
all out or make things happen, let God lead the way, don't put a time
limit on what you want to receive or if you do have a relaxed
mindset, relax and have a sense of relief. You know that you are in
that sweet spot of faith when you have a sense of relief and calm. I
wish someone would have told me that when I was a growing up.
I have learned that people will only
teach you their level of faith. I have not heard anyone say I want
your faith to be stronger than mine. Has anyone said that to you? If
they don't believe that anyone can be miraculously healed they will
tell you that you can't be miraculously healed like it is a fact. If
people don't believe that God will do ALL things for you trust me
they will let you know that God will not give you a new car or a
million dollars and make it sound like a fact or give you a thousand
rules about faith to discourage you from even asking for what you
want all. The purpose of this article is to give you every reason to
ask God for whatever you need and desire. There is no such thing as
too much faith. I want you to have greater faith than me. Other
people's lack of faith does not have to be yours.
Be bold. Stand out of the crowd like
the woman with the issue of blood who touched Jesus and was instantly
healed Luke 8;43- 48. Jesus said “Daughter, your faith has healed
you. Go in peace. Amaze God with your faith like the centurion
soldier Luke 7;1-10 Jesus said, “I tell you, I have not found such
great faith even in Israel”. Will you amaze God with your faith?
These two people knew what they knew and no one could tell them
otherwise. They did not get permission to have that type of faith.
When you have that full faith nothing
will shake you. Faith doesn't believe in what it sees. It only
believes in the unseen. It also believes in what it knows. My husband
made a striking statement to me one day that I will never forget. He
was telling me that he has faith in God but he doesn't always get
what he ask for from God. He said, “I only got what I knew I could
have”. My eyes grew so wide and I was so amazed by what he said.
His argument was that we don't always get what we want but he said,
“I only got what I knew I could have”. That is a huuuge key right
there and he was absolutely right. We only get what we know we can
have.
Think about it for a moment everything
you knew you could have without a shadow of a doubt you got it. That
is how my life has always been. That is how I got all the things that
I wanted in my life and I also knew that I could keep my eyesight
even when the doctors told me that I am going blind. I can STILL see
^_^ This is the key to success. Don't just want what you want, know
that you can have it just like everything else you received in your
life and never stop trusting that God will do what he said He will do
IF you believe He will. The most successful people believe in a
higher power and how you build your faith is through study. How do
know what God has promised you if you haven't studied His word? God's
word is faith food. Because ALL things come through Him knowing Him
will make a walk through this life a whole lot easier if you believe
it will.
If you want more words of encouragement
please join me Here and if you are in need of prayers just let
me know and I will be happy to pray for you. Stay encouraged.
God Bless
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